Four friends laughing together on a couch in a warmly lit living room, from The Invite (2026) directed by Olivia Wilde
6 min

25.09.2026

The Invite: Olivia Wilde's Wonderfully Chaotic Dinner Party

By Tuba Meltem Pekol

Olivia Wilde's The Invite turns a dinner party with Penelope Cruz, Edward Norton and Seth Rogen into a sharp satire of social media and performed intimacy.

By Tuba Meltem Pekol

​It is not a secret anymore: on a random day in the city center, you can put on a little show accompanied by a smooth jam. Strolling around is now a new concept, figuring out how to be seen, doing groceries, another hobby in the public eye. Who is all of it meant for? The constant urge to exist through recurring patterns on life's visible side, edited into the versions you covet most across carefully framed snapshots, with the unwanted parts cut out.

In The Invite, her latest comedy after Don't Worry Darling, Olivia Wilde stars as Angela, a tradwife who insists on throwing a dinner party for their upstairs neighbors, Penélope Cruz (Piña) and Edward Norton (Hawk), to be socially relevant. What should have been a curated social event descends into chaos because Angela is just a wannabe who outwardly seems so eager to fit in. You’re in for a last-minute surprise, having yet to meet Joe, played by Seth Rogen, Angela's super realistic former musician husband once with shattered dreams. He thinks there is no point in sugarcoating the bitter truth into modern disguise. Refusing to pose while he cannot totally tear himself apart from the stream at all.

Life, Set to Background Music

In parallel transitions, all get used to the social media language, recounting how the married couple is separately blended into onscreen illusion. Short video clips set to music show Joe riding his bike, while Angela appears more cheerful – the moment she stops by the deli on her way home and tries to bring new decor items into the house.

Seth Rogen as Joe cycling down a steep San Francisco street in The Invite, an A24 film

Seth Rogen as Joe taking a ride on a bike around the city streets. The Invite. A24


Each shot effectively critiques social media on a deep level, taking what people believe about themselves and how they present themselves, and revealing how safe spaces can dismantle the facades they have so meticulously curated. So accurate for our couple. The background music quietly carries the visuals in and out of the house, almost as if the performance never has to stop. Until Joe comes home, bringing realism along with him. The door closes. The music stops. He feels like the masks will not come off when he arrives, blaming their persistence on Angela’s silly, unrealistic, and funny hosting performance. As for Seth Rogen’s character, his role is sort of an intruder, whose inner voice is a little too loud, breaking the “stage play” (the originally devised piece) by whispering, “I know who you really are,” and “Nothing like that ever happened,” or “that’s what she said.” You know, the voice we couldn’t get to shut up again and again. This voice restricts Joe and makes him drift away from his own potential precisely because of it as well.

Olivia Wilde and Seth Rogen as a married couple in A24's The Invite, standing in a home interior

Olivia Wilde and Seth Rogen as a married couple in The Invite. A24

Cut, Take the Entrance Again

You can expect that wherever the narrative heads off, so does Angela. Whenever the scenes are interrupted by any accident or an unexpected fact, Angela cannot tolerate it, recommending that Joe replay the entrance scene one more time while reminding him that they are expecting upstairs neighbors. Joe thinks this is sort of a “podcast” moment and complains about how she is fictionalizing every step. Cut! Let’s take it again from the beginning. The moment Joe steps out and immediately heads back inside, letting himself live again, it feels out of place; for once, loud music takes over the room. He is rolling with the situation pretty well for someone who just found out. The only real options left are to shrug or keep his mouth shut.. Surely, the film lays the home out as a perfect balance which rips the characters away from all the fake lies and glittery deception they are guiding couples toward, leading them to wrong connections with anything. Besides, the music works together with the sequences to add another layer of meaning.

Get Ready With Me to Host

“Big night at our place! Get ready with me to host the dinner on my latest vlog.” Welcoming someone might bring more casualties to the table indeed. But Angela tries to salvage the situation by offering Piña some jamón – even going so far as to throw out the soufflé she had made in their honor, just to replace it with Piña’s pie; what a people-pleaser. Angela thought letting them in could be cool, having a chance to taste their picture-perfect relationship. She admits to Joe that they have no other choice but to hang out with people they can’t stand because they have no friends. Ah, poor Joe! I can’t help but say Joe (Seth Rogen) is my absolute favorite character in the film. He is the best of the best.

Olivia Wilde as Angela offering a wooden board of Jamon in A24 film The Invite

Olivia Wilde as Angela offering a wooden board of Jamón in A24 film The Invite


Meanwhile, Joe is fighting for his life not to recount to his noisy, sexually active neighbors, whose behavior bothers him. As you may know, Joe is being stroppy again. Since the neighbors are already here, coming off as hosts of the dinner night, they get into an explosive clearing of the air. The couples lay all their cards on the table; slightly gauche manners darken the mood, but they don't take it personally and move on. The tension gets intense, the playlist at its finest, as Georges Bizet’s Carmen: “Habanera” kicks in, furious and resonating through the scene.

Olivia Wilde and Penelope Cruz at a party with Seth Rogen and Edward Norton in A24's The Invite

Olivia Wilde and Penélope Cruz at a party with Seth Rogen and Edward Norton in A24's The Invite

It Was Always a Stage Play

A couple of people around the table are so obsessed with the “Menu” that they have no real idea what they normally like, or even who they really know. For a long time, they’ve been looking for something to hold on to. As the night goes on, each couple is dragged into a confrontation about how they’ve lost themselves in the personas they project to the outside world. The feelings don’t quite live up to the expectations. The couples barely know each other, but they’re still down for whatever. Angela’s marriage, meanwhile, has been on the rocks all along, while Hawk, a former firefighter, has been lying about his real name up to this point. He uses a made-up name derived from Howard — well, it’s not exactly his first time going by a fake identity; he was Tyler Durden once, in a way, after all. Piña reveals that she is a therapist and sexologist. Even Angela eventually gives up on the performance she has been maintaining from the very beginning. Joe still can’t get over the missed chance to become a famous superstar, instead finding himself stuck teaching and living in his parents’ house. Either way, those reasons clearly shape their so-called premises, even as they threaten to ruin the same big night that is supposed to bring everything together. What matters most is how much these things still matter to the characters. Suddenly, what begins as a carefully curated dinner party turns out to be a support group where everyone is forced to meet the versions of themselves they have been trying to hide. Following the trends, unrealistic relationship dynamics and home interiors we pretend to be interested in – thrifting as a new concept supposedly after IKEA. It’s all on the table. It's always been a stage play, after all.

Author

Tuba Meltem Pekol

Date

25.09.2026

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Film & MediaThe InviteThe Invite reviewOlivia WildeSeth RogenPenelope CruzEdward NortonA24A24 film reviewdinner party filmcomedy film reviewsocial media satireperformative relationshipstradwifefilm criticismCarmen Habanera2026 films