Two characters stand facing a glowing door in a green field with mountains in the background in a still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.
7 min

17.02.2026

A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025): A Modern Rom-Com Reflection

By Tuba Meltem Pekol

A reflective analysis of Kogonada’s A Big Bold Beautiful Journey, exploring memory, love, identity and how a modern rom-com reimagines emotional connection.

A Big Bold Beautiful Journey reimagines the romantic road movie through memory, coincidence, and emotional reckoning. Directed by Kogonada, the film uses surreal doors and intimate encounters to explore how love begins when we stop running from ourselves.

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A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025) or Just Expectation?

On an overstepped bounds chase, whenever someone being reluctant to face the consequences, and ignores themselves only brings more difficulties into their life, right? In the pursuit of honesty, no one is fully open about the past that still sits uncomfortably within them. Individuals constantly broken apart by an ever-changing world, may avoid to get involved and hide from the specific occasions. Leaving a connection and intimacy while being yourself is not something someone is willingly takes responsibility for in the first place. On the way back home, when the loneliness hits hard, people choose what is steady, it promises continuity after everything else has fractured. Familiarity becomes soemthing they settle into, where questions soften and lose their urgency. The individuals lost in places to escape the pain they hide. Anything unsolved twists into a cycle of repetition and disappointment, a journey that seems to lead nowhere. The return inward, instead of offering escape, pulls them back into old patterns, bringing this chapter to a quiet close. What remains uncertain is the self that can only be felt once familiarity no longer defines the edges. The path unfolds as a gentle reckoning, stitched together from the moments that slowly make room for a self society isn’t quite comfortable letting exist without explanation. 

Two silhouetted figures sit side by side, gazing at Earth from space in a still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

A still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

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A Modern Rom-Com Built on Coincidence

The journey takes us to places where expectations are turned upside down, and this is what exactly we expect from a rom-com. But things got a little complicated on this trip. A modern-world matchmaking story unfolds from Seth Reiss’s script, capturing the moments our eyes lock and then suddenly she jumps into my car. You can already see it taking shape. It is at this point the film directed by Kogonada, brings together total strangers at a mutual friend’s wedding, allowing coincidence and timing. Start by Sarah (Margot Robbie) and David (Colin Farrell), both far from the whole concept of how to being together with someone, share a complicated on-screen relationship in A Big Bold Beautiful Journey. Speaking as someone, the beginnings are not always starting out an easy way. It is a thin line between delaying the beginnings, and the transformation for yourself. Rather, Kogonada makes it simple. He guides them through a car ride that feels nothing on the surface until it suddenly isn’t, as the car stops at a random door linked to a past neither of them fully expresses a specific memory shrouded in. 

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Doors to the Past and the Self

Every so often the characters step through the unknown doors which are connected to their past, the doors reveal what lies deep within the characters and how they will relate to them. The first door opens through David’s house, which is the first place before everything makes sense. Yet the conversation from his parents, and his intention to cut things short with lies, casts such a heavy atmosphere. On top of that his car, chained on the curb, perfectly summarizes the situation he is in. Adding to this, an endless stream of boring life lectures. Oddly enough, he finds himself looking at a street poster with a car rental agency promotion on it. Right at this moment, heavy rain hits, the character is coerced into taking the leap of faith with his blue umbrella. Another door appears before him. Here, the car rental agency doorbell speaks to him, gives some instructions about how to open the outside door. While, David looking directly to the camera through peephole. He actually speaking with the voice creates the impression that he's trying to deepen the connection with the audience by breaking the fourth wall. Followed, the speech from doorbell implies don’t be too hard on yourself if you don’t succeed in the first try “doors are tricky”. Of course, his first attempt failed. You should’t put to much weight on failures; that’s life after all. To convey a sense of self-awareness about how movies built a constructed reality, the woman behind the voice (Phoebe Waller-Bridge) implies that he should stand at a marked spot after he steps inside. Much like spotlights brighten a protagonist showing up for an audition, the scene draws deliberate attention to his presence. This is not the first time David is spotted as a main character, later shares the stage with Sarah where his high school musical ends up unrequited love confession. A place they stop by on their long journey and they tested about the expectations they still hold on. To be aware, the road expected to observe situations not as controllers, but as players or actors. They should have no remorse for the past. They both come on a visiter to rewrite and change the rules.

Two characters stand in front of a theater exit door on a stage in a still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

A Knee-Level still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

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The scene now features David, a female cashier (Phoebe Waller-Bridge), and mécanicien (Kevin Kline). All David wants is to rent a car. Unfortunately, over the course of the speech turns into an oddly prolonged ordeal. Why all these stage? Also, it takes a long walk to get where he is now, and woman mockingly asked “isn’t it a longer walk than you anticipated”? It is so promising company considering her intention about whatever you’ve been expecting from the past. Now, it’s time to let go of it all. You are here, and we are serving different than any other usual car company in your mind.

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Then, his sudden head shot came out and David insisting that he’s not an actor, and adding, they are not allowed to keep his photo, this is not right. For mécanicien, performing can be a way of get to the truth. It sounds like “fake it till you make it”. We are all actors. By creating confusion, it draws back the audience to the dilemma between expectations and reality. And, the journey begins.

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You Have Arrived At Your Destination. First Stop: Wedding

The journey matters, but each destination is a small break before the characters move forward again. The car ride stands out as a perfect choice from this view. “I need to enjoy the journey itself, not rushing to discover anything, but savoring the process of discovering myself”. This is supposed to get rid of the bounds to be unrealistic expectations which respond to deep internal conflict Sarah and David in. Probably, the expectation by the thread of fate through the unexpected turns make random, innocent, and long travel journey. The last thing a person single wants to attend a wedding ceremony. Weddings are generally defined as the end of a destination, a completed journey for two people. Thus, our characters maintain first encounter with each other. The first step before sharing events with someone. The small talk and unexpected sharing quickly deepens into something special. Sweetness and joy and the thank you offered on stage for the guests, "Thank you so much coming all this way," can be interpreted as a reference to A Big Bold Beautiful Journey Sarah and David are about to step into the next scene.

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Into The Woods: The Red Door

We meet David on a car ride, deep in thought.The atmosphere interrupted by the GPS voice asking him very intimate question whether he wants to go on a journey or not. The conversation drags him to the Kiki’s Travel Plaza and recommended him to eat fast food cheese burger. Sarah and David reunited at Burger King one more time when they enjoying Whoppers (cheeseburger) all alone until they realize each other. The things getting warm between them, projecting insecurities and flirtatious jokes, the burger place turns into a last minute date spot.

Two characters sit across from each other in a fast-food booth, sharing burgers in a still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

A Shoulder-Level still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.​

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And it’s time for them to leave but the journey has a plan for them not in separated ways so they start new beginnings together. The first stop explores the memory of David’s past, a lighthouse is an image designed to help offering directions and illuminates the guilt and regret that linger for a long time. The red door opens with the courage and both characters’ saying that “we have to go through” marks a turning point in terms of willingness. The place beyond the door is peaceful, yet deeply lonely because we feel important in this world until we encounter something more vast or striking than ourselves. In those moments, clinging to the expectation in beauty, we believe it will bring clarity or resolution.Waiting to prepare yourself supposed to understand deeper perspective. This journey asks patience from Sarah and David. What we are waiting for rarely arrives right away, it often comes when we least expect it. Until then, the silence can feel heavier.

Two characters stand on a lighthouse balcony overlooking the ocean at sunset in a still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

 A still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.


Upon David’s thoughts about beautiful places, only thoughts without distraction, noise or crowd give us loneliness nevertheless. In a way, beauty becomes disturbing; it asks something from us, reflection, insight and meaning. And those are things we usually face alone. The characters realize that their past experiences weren't actually bad when they revisit those memories together and return with a new story.

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One Door After Another

Sarah and David do not just take a ride on their old memories. From Sarah’s favorite museum—one she used to visit only in the evenings with her mother to David’s first heartbreak, where he ended up saying “I love you” to Cheryl again and again even if it’s not his first time there, they revisit moments that once defined them. Maybe, he cannot resist loving her once she was the main character of his dreams. This heartbreak scene interrupts by Sarah reminds David to leave it there, giving the message “I am with you”. The film presents the events experienced by Sarah and David as a sketch in which they once played their roles, therefore, the boundary between truth and reality is intentionally left for the audience to discover. The car journey appears as a time machine that carries the audience into past memories. At times, the transitions break the fourth wall, building an intimate connection with the viewer and inviting them to engage with the real world. As Sarah and David move through these memories together, they begin to understand not only what shaped them, but also what they must leave behind.

Two characters face each other beside a standing door in a grassy field with rolling hills in a still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

A Knee-Level still from A Big Bold Beautiful Journey (2025), directed by Kogonada.

Through this shared journey, they learn that remembering is important but letting go is necessary to move forward. Of couse, every new beginnings comes with the past, yet urges us to find our own path. Sometimes, the others involved in these beginnings are not part of the plan. By sharing the story, they determine the route of this spontaneous journey. Unconsciously, the warmth of someone who knows us, the knowledge of their presence, saves us from the loneliness of a frightening beginning. The party you didn't want to attend, the clothes you didn't want to change, or the newspapers you didn't want to read. The darkest times just become we have put too much on them already. And once Sarah and David step through them, one after another, they discover that what truly matters was never the fear of entering, but who was standing beside them when they did.

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Date

17.02.2026

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Film & Mediafilm analysismodern rom comA Big Bold Beautiful JourneyKogonada filmMargot Robbie Colin Farrell moviecinematic storytellingmemory and identity in filmcontemporary romance cinemafilm symbolismemotional road trip movie